Man may change but God remains the same, he can never be unrighteous. A cousin of mine came to our house within the week, she began to tell stories of her close friend who lived an extremely wayward life and at the end ended up with a good, wealthy and caring husband. At the end of her story she concluded that wayward girls get the best husbands. I was initially silent when she told the true life story but when I heard such conclusion, I was touched to my core and had to outline some points so I can change that mentality of her’s.
The world will live in today is a place whereby evil is taken as a norm and the decent girls are seen as “mumu” or people that don’t know the way.
Many ladies squander and spoil themselves with fornication, abortion and will even critize the chaste and good ladies all because of the myopic mindset that they will get the best husbands.
I’m writing this to as many ladies out there who are trying to be patient and to wait upon God for the rightful time,
Do not admire their lifestyle
Do not instil their worldly mindset
Do not begin to live way-wardly, with the belief that you will surely find the right man for you.
God is not unrighteous and can never fail those that put their trust on him. There are certain principles of life that no man can escape from and that is the principle of reaping what you sow.
Remember the book of Galatians 6:7-9 King James Version (KJV) says:
“Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.
For he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that something to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting.
And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not”.

Yes they may get the husbands of their dreams but the end will surely tell. There is no man or woman that follows God and avoids the stains of this world that will not reap his/her blessings in this world and in the world to come eternal life. Most of the so called worldly “perfect marriages” you see and admire and wish for on social media may not really seem perfect as they look. You don’t know the struggle they are going through, Some of them suffer a lot of things and have too many cockroaches in their cupboards, cockroaches like barrenness, miscarriages, failures, sicknesses and diseases and all manner of bad vices, but they will never cease to show us the island they visited for a vacation, the studio pictures and the rest of it. Some can even reap it in the future, when they give birth to children who cannot contribute anything good to the society, imbeciles, club girls and wayward children, they will begin to ask God questions, whatsoever a man sows that shall he also reap.
It is written in Psalm 127 King James Version (KJV) that says:
“Except the LORD build the house, they labour in vain that build it: except the
LORD keep the city, the watchman waketh but in vain”.

As humans we always prove to be wiser than God but God definitely knows how to reward the righteous. For the fact that they are living fine does not mean you should go ahead to live their way of life. There are some persons that God shows mercy to, he said he will show mercy unto who he will show mercy. God could have mercy on some set of persons maybe because of their ignorance, everyone’s destiny is not the same.
When the Lord God is the center of your life and if you are truly following him with all sincerity he will surely bless you with the best of the best, the best might not be in physical assets alone but even in terms of the spiritual blessings. Someone that will cultivate you, build you, protect you and at the end usher you into the pearly gates of heaven.
Wait on the Lord and abhor that notion that wayward girls always get the best husbands. Keep your chastity and body for Christ and your husband alone and you will never be ashamed in Jesus name Amen.



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